Archive for May, 2013


People now have become so wrapped in superficial issues like hair and make up, clothes and cars, boyfriends and girlfriends, necking and sex – all soaking like a sponge from entertainment, social forums and books. Sure they can be fun and interesting, but how I wish they would be taught and encouraged other qualities of humbleness, strength, courage and values; a boundary where certain things need to come to a stop. Finding out who you are as a person, what your interests are, are definitely more important.
Considering we all live in a society governed by artificiality, superficiality and prejudice, dreams seem to be more real than reality. I don’t blame people being taken by the social forums, the glitter, and thirst to be associated with celebrities or anyone close to entertainment or even the ones who are prominent in their own little part of the world. Enjoying things for what they are, being content with what’s bestowed on them, empathy for another human being, all have gone for a toss.
As much as they want to be associated with status, they can’t stand hearing different versions of things in life. A difference of words seems to be the cause of a break in a relationship. Hiding behind a facade and in the name of free speech, being judgmental has become the fashion of the season. Prejudice in the name of opinion is rampant, superficiality seems to rule the roost and artificiality adorns a person as easy as a smile!
How frustrating it is not to talk about things that really matter to us. Because the more we talk, high are the odds of people saying things that would hurt us. So we keep quite, letting the things that are gnawing a hole inside us, away from all to avoid the hurt. And we blame everyone and everything under the sky for the kind of world we live in today, except self. Hypocrisy scales the heights of immeasurability!
I wish people would realize that the world is a sphere and not a center!

Rangmunch With Alima – Part 1
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Rangmunch With Alima – Part2
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Oftentimes we reflect on our lives and wonder how we came to be at a certain crossroad or a path, how we ended where we are today. This may apply to anything in life, be it career, marriage, personal decisions, choices we have made and crises we have lived through. Isn’t a path just that? A means of getting from one place to another, made up of faces and events, one baby step after another.
In the path of our lives, we don’t have the luxury of seeing or forecasting where our footsteps may lead us in a certain path that we have chosen to walk. Every decision we take or a choice we make, leads us to more paths and so on, until by the end of our days, our life is one continuous thread of paths, all sewn to make the final trail.
Now, isn’t this the rhythm of life? Isn’t this how a perfect life is supposed to be? Lot of people may live with the impression that a perfect life is a long-term goal achieved through hoops and loops, searching for the right moment, accumulating a bank balance, nesting a huge mansion, possess brands and so on and so forth – an unending desire to gain more and an unrelenting search for that elusive ‘happiness’.
What about now? What about this moment in time? What about this second where we are sitting in our kitchen drinking coffee with our loved ones, what about this moment of cuddling next to our loved ones watching TV or what about this minute when your children are talking with us about their school life, friends and concerns? Isn’t this normalcy and isn’t normalcy perfect!!
We need to remember that we can’t make everyone happy in our lives. We choose our priorities and we go after them. We have to let people go and this is perfectly fine – be it a friend or a relation. We have to let the past remain in the past. Everyone can be a part of our journey, but only a few can remain until the end, even if it is a family member. No guilt!
I’ve lived, I’ve loved, I’ve lost, I’ve missed, I’ve trusted, I’ve hurt, I’ve made mistakes, but most of all, I’ve learned. And I’ve learned that ‘Perfect life is all about creating our perfect moments.’

HOLD ON…..

Life turns dreams upside down,
Faces of friends follow in sunshine,
Shadows but melt away, in dark,
Voices wag on a back turned in pain
Talk I realize, is nothing but cheap,
Heart knows no evil, smiles in repose,
Mind in symphony, courage in veins
Seize dreams second time around.
~Alima Kanumilli~
Copyrighted May 10, 2013

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