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             “There is no place in a fanatic’s head where reason can enter”…..Napoleon Bonaparte
And I would not have said it any better than the great Napoleon himself! I had to pen my thoughts on this topic, frustrating as it may sound; this is slowly rooting itself in my brain and had to attack it before I get consumed by the sheer audacity and utter crap of chaos of this so called fanaticism.
I am a fan, an admirer. I may love something with the very depth of my soul. I can be passionate about issues and passionate about things that matter to my family and me. Yet I don’t ever remember, ever crossing the line of reality of humanity into the unreal world of inhumanity.
There is a variety of professions in this world and every profession comes with a baggage. Every profession is accepted within its boundaries and the people involved are very much aware of the pros and cons of what they have taken up in life. They shall deal with the consequences of their profession, in their own way. As an outsider of a particular profession, and as humans, have been raised to respect people, their stature and their decisions and their feelings.
It pains me sometimes to see even well educated, intellectual people crossing that line of decency and humanity. Makes me wonder, if this is what we were raised to believe in; to mistreat another human being? Is this what our parents had instilled in us; to talk about others or their behavior in a way that would bring shame to our very own parentage and moral values? Have we as humans, become so arrogant and obnoxious, that we do not see anything beyond our own warped thinking? Even God is not perfect and we are but just mere humans!
Of course I gossip! I sit with a group of friends and discuss issues, causes and any other subject or person that I am interested, we joke, we laugh; does not mean I cross the line of respect I have for the other person or subject. Besides what authority do I have, to even assume or pass derogatory remarks about anything or anyone, when the facts are not clear. What authority do I have to even make comments about personal lives? Mind you, I am not saying that I do not have an opinion or do not voice my distaste; it is done in a respectful manner within the limits of decency. If I am not perfect, then who the hell am I to sit in judgment of others!!!  If the younger generation and the present generation spent half the time they spend on assassinating other people’s lives and characters, into other more important issues that are plaguing the society, we would be living in a much better world and maybe, just maybe have done something good for our future generations.
God gave us brains, to use them reasonably, not to stop using them and follow blindly, the blind or the ignorant! Before you make your next nasty comment, stop a second and put yourself on the receiving end. Before you go make that next obscene or offensive remark, remember that you are wallowing in your own bucket of insecurities.  Before you go tagging those disgusting names to people, make sure you are not opening yourself to the same repugnant treatment in the future.
Fanaticism can be good, if it is channeled for the right causes and reasons. Don’t let fanaticism obliterate the feeling of humanity…..where we lose sight of empathy, compassion and love for other humans, the very essence of life of earth.

Pyar ka gher

Nainon tale khwaab hai jo
Honton tale pyaas hai jo
Bhade  dhadkane, ruke saanse
Saamne jab woh aaya
Ehsaas jo yeh chaaya
Kyon hum na pighale
Kyon pal na thame…
Aise hi zindagi bhar,
Rahe baahen pyar bhar.
~Alima Kanumilli~
Copyrighted February 23, 2012
Into the world I came
Innocent I of the game
Cradled in the arms of dame
High on shoulders of name…
Learn thru eyes secure
Blossom in love assure,
Tree of memories galore
Remember I amore.
Into new page, step I crowned
 Hand in hand, soul mate found
Eyes sparkling, dreams abound
Relations anew, journey wound
Note by note, lyric by lyric,
Song of life on the hymn.
Into the abyss, I spiraled
Mind bleeding, soul shatter
Body crumbling like no matter
Heart in million pieces scatter
Friends into thin air vanish
Relations in question tarnish…..
Beacon of light in the horizon
Oasis of hope in the vision
Yet, shadows of the past,
Haunt me to the ghast
Soul tired, breathes its last!
~Alima Kanumilli~
Copyrighted February 23, 2012

Food for thought…..

As I watched my daughters have their dinner, making conversation about different kinds of food, it suddenly hit me, the similarities between the variety of food and the variety of our life……and bang went my mind into overdrive as thoughts race ahead with all the similes…..
Food….life; life…food and yes my wheels started turning…furiously! How similar is our life to the variety of food we eat? There is food that is to be tasted, food that is swallowed and food that is chewed and relished.
Just think about it….it starts with that first taste or the first bite. Similar to us being thrown into the beginning of life, the first breath, the first cry, the first taste or the first touch. Our very own initiation of ourselves, into the recipe called life. As we progress on our journey, we learn to swallow the bitterness, disappointments, regrets or any other curve ball that life throws out at us….interesting isn’t it? Exactly like how we have various foods that we tend to swallow! And there are those parts of our lives, where we take time to nurture and enjoy them, moment by moment….we savor them and make memories to last a lifetime….just like we take time to enjoy the delicious food bite by bite…..relishing every spice and taste, our tongue dishes out.
Variety adds spice to life, don’t you think so…..literally and figuratively ;-)….a wonderful palette of nuances of tastes as we go along in our journey called life.
Just remember, we eat to live and not live to eat….be healthy 😉
A dream beautiful had I,
A desire to fulfill, crave I
A life simple, want I….
A journey begin new, a home in country new,
Hours of hard work, into the night mature,
Sacrifices beyond might, came a dream in sight…
A dream of love, with a soul mate lure,
A promise of tomorrow, of wishes small in flight,
A bed of wedded bliss, with a family in view..
Shattering came the dream, million pieces breaking
Trust betrayed, willful acts playing…
Heart filled with despair, eyes brimming in hurt,
A raging war within, mind in anguish
Of fair ‘n foul, of right ‘n wrong
A tempest so harsh, morals in defiance….
Went by time…
Soothing the heart weak
A balm on the dreams bleak
Calming the soul meek…
Went by time…came a Messiah beacon,
Hand in support strong, I hold,
Word in kind concern, I hear,
Act of trust, I learn to believe, 
Path of faith, I learn to walk,
A deed of love, I trust to accept.
An impeding ray of light I see,
Breaking thru’ the stormy clouds thee
Erasing the gloom, sunshine in the loom
From ashes, rises hope in bloom…
Of freedom anew, my right I shall claim
A dream beautiful, now have I,
A life simple, a desire fulfilled thy.
~Alima Kanumilli~
Copyrighted February 18, 2012
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